Maybell, I hope you have an amazing trip-- so excited for you! And that your move goes smoothly and you get settled in. I look forward to hearing updates about your new space.
I hear you about the in-laws. There is a part of this that feels like a betrayal by them, too. I've heard that my MIL won't speak to stbx about this situation. .. I feel angry that she didn't try harder to advocate for the marriage.