Amazing stuff, right? Finding things out about someone you have been with for so long.

I would imagine she is very frightened. I always said if my xh ever comprehended the depth of what he did, it would bring him to his knees. I don't think that comprehension is ever going to happen, although, you never know. Either way, it doesn't have anything to do with me. I wish him peace always.

I cannot imagine what she must feel like...coming to terms with it all.

I so get the patience thing and how hard it is...especially for you, my friend. LOL! smile