Had a good weekend. Went to our 3rd Post ... topic Forgiveness and Trust.
Was good, I actually felt like we both got something out of it and I continue to see W making an effort and she even wrote that her goal was "To be more open and honest to rebuild the trust I lost with my H after my A" ... she could have easily went with a 'safe' answer/goal here ... so again .. something I mentally bookmarked.
Other mental bookmarks over the weekend. *She was not defensive over some hot-button talks *Alot of ILY continue from her *A "I'm sorry" from out of nowhere. *Continues affection/contact *This one killed me ... she said .. I kid you not "I have made alot of progress with my changes and I am happy with the results" ... DB much?
We looked at a new bed, but I put the brakes on it as we have another month before I make the decision to 'move in' ... then things become a bit more real .. granted I 'live' there now but having my place as a safety net seems to help
I continue to do my GALs ... played football Sunday and went out for beers after, then came home and W, S and I checked out a movie and got a new board game and played as a family .. we all had a blast. Wednesday happy hour with guys from work as W is taking S on play dates
Even now, I am not pursuing .. she is .. I remain detached, feeling at peace and centered ... watching her do the work as she continues to change and grow for the better.
