Hi Def, I think you did really really well. Just to clarify - the marital rape allegation? Was that an allegation she made in respect of your M? Feel free not to answer if this is too personal a question.

The only part where I thought you should play it cool was this:

"but if she wanted to continue this conversation some time to let me know"

I'm being pedantic, but it looks a little like pursuit. She knows where you are if she wants to talk again, you don't need to offer....but really I think you did great in general - I'm only being picky!

xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus