Yes - I think a lot of us are on this journey.

Hopefully I will pick up kids Thursday evening and have them Friday Sat and Sun. I don't even care if my w uses this time to spend with OW. I will get to see my kids.

I called to talk to them last night and had to interact with several ww family members - brother in law and mother in law. Both said how good it was to hear my voice. I said yes, nice to hear yours too and left it at that. Hurts as I spent 20 years with these people. However I have to be civil as they are a gateway to my kids. Not once did any of then say they were sorry for their family member dumping our marriage and making our kids hurt.

Just can't believe how negative how all of this went down. Talked to W a little and ahe tells me she is having dinner at th new restaurant in town with sister and her husband. Obviously I won't be there as I have been for 20 years. I said I hope you have a great time I heard the restaurant is really good.

And then fade to black.

Back in the saddle at work today. I will crush it!!


Was made a better person by DB'ers