U, I'm about to ask H to file. I don't feel like a WAW, I have been at this for more than a year with zero sign of anything good happening. I'm going to ask in person, but have no intention of rehashing anything. He knows I didn't want any of this, I don't plan to go into it again. I'm simply going to state what I want now, which is for him to finish what he started. I do expect there to be some conversation about timing and approach. That's what seems authentic to me. What's authentic for you? At this point, U, that's the choice you make, don't worry about W's reaction. Make it real for U.
I do hear you about feeling like a failure. I don't think I've failed at my life, on the contrary I've gotten it back. But I do feel like a fraud posting to newcomers sometimes, I always want to write a disclaimer, don't listen to me, I did not save my M.
