I understand Rayanne! I think in most Rs, there is usually one who has a Higher Desire/Drive than the other... so LD/ND or unknown isn't really a necessary label.
Actually, I need to edit my LLs...
I am the LD
1. Quality Time
2. Words of Affirmation/Physical Touch
3. Acts of Service
4. Receiving Gifts
My H is HD
1. Physical Touch
2. Words of Affirmation
3. Quality Time
4. Acts of Service