So on a further note.......... Do I just give up? How does one negotiate trying to win her back (not sure if win is the word I am looking for) But try and work on staying married. I am working on myself. But if she seems I am doing ok. She is upset that I could just move on so fast and do ok.
Right now, there is no marriage to work on. So what EXACTLY will change when you give up?
As for moving on, what does that mean to you? If you think seeing other women is the answer - recheck your goals. Is that getting you closer to them?