One of the things I have finally learned is detaching IS NOT letting go or giving up hope. It is to help you. You can't control or change them you can only do that yourself.

There are so many wonderful people here. Listen to what they are telling you. Read and re-read the replies until you Listen to what they say. Read anything and everything you can get your hands on and all the threads in this forum. It will help you to understand.

I know your scared. I am too. But the time I have spent doing what I am saying for you to do has given me the hope and courage necessary to do this.

Best wishes

Last edited by little1; 07/27/15 11:42 AM. Reason: spelling
Me 44
H 46
3 DD 22, 18, 15
1 DS 2.5
M 10/1992
BD1 2/2014 BD 2 7/19/2014
Moved in with OW 7/20/2014

My fight song "roar"