One of her family members does it too that's why I asked why they seem to be happy with it. He spends time with her kids and grandkids camping and lake and all but barely sees his own because she doesn't like him coming to our house to see them. She wants the visits at her house. She has alienated his children and is proud of herself.
Just needed to vent
Me 44 H 46 3 DD 22, 18, 15 1 DS 2.5 M 10/1992 BD1 2/2014 BD 2 7/19/2014 Moved in with OW 7/20/2014