LBS trying to get it right

[Ontheup]

Ghost

Agree with Fogg, there is nothing to give up on. Your wife has made that decision for you for what ever reason.

You now need to decide what are you going to do? stick around and keep on dancing? Till she starts seeing another man (if she isnt already)? or brings him home? you still going to put with that?

Its sh1t but you need to get the mindset of what am I going to do to move forward, not how can i impress my wife back into the marriage because it doesnt work.

Think of you, your kids and your future.

She wants out of the marriage? ...let her have it..let her have what she wants....you cant force someone to do what they dont want to do. Step away from the all the drama

I would definatley get all my ducks in row, seek legal advice about where you stand regarding your children and finance.

I danced for 6 months before i found out my wife was having an affair. I bent over backwards doing everything she had previously complained of. It was just bullsh1t from her....It made absolutley zero difference apart from me disrespecting myself. The pain started to stop once i decided i would not put up with her cr@p any longer. So i gave her what she wanted and moved out. I've gone NC apart from child and finace stuff. Its the best thing I've done.