Still reading 5LL, but this is my best guess thus far:

Me/LD
1.words of affirmation
tie 2.quality time/physical touch (PT REALLY needs to be part of QT for me)
3.acts of service
4.gifts

H/HD:
1.physical touch
2.quality time
3.words of affirmation
4.acts of service
5.gifts

A blessed and happy marriage is a union of two forgivers and Him, because...a cord of three strands is not quickly broken. Ecclesiastes 4:12.