Hi 4, Zeus kindly answered your question to me on changing the dynamics. Also, you are relying on him for things that you will feel annoyed about if he doesn't do them - getting fuel for you. That is something to change. If your car needs fuel, deal with that yourself. I know it was Sunday yesterday and he had the card - but if you think ahead, you can maybe get the cash Saturday and be self-sufficient.

Self-sufficiency is a really good place to aim for - even with these small aread like filling the car. They are baby steps, and they start to erode the fear that you can't cope alone. Because you can, and you will if you need to.

I think you are doing well - posting and listening and trying to put things into practice. Keep on moving forward and you will get there!

Take care, Toots x

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