me HD
Physical Touch (especially intimacy)
Quality Time
Words of Affirmation
Receiving Gifts (the very occasional gift is awesome..don't require this regularly at all...that would be a waste)

LDW
Acts of Service (i think...she's happy even though i don't provide much of this...but that's her number one giving LL)
Physical Touch (non-intimate)
Quality Time (may reverse with above)