I'd like to add: when I wrote that first post, I was in a really bad place in terms of blaming myself and looking back at my actions much more harshly than I do now. It's not to say I wasn't a bad partner and angry. However I personally don't consider it "emotional abuse" anymore. I do consider it inmaturity, co-dependency, insecurity, taking her for granted, and her not setting boundaries and just being "ok" with it. But I don't these days go so far as to beat myself up and classify it as emotional abuse. But maybe it was, I don't really know. Either way I have come a loooooooong way from that in that last year and months. For whatever that is worth...
Me 37,W37 D8,D5 T20 years, M13 years BD-5/14 MC starts (continues)-9/14 EA discovered-10/14 Piecing(?)-11/14-5/14 "I just feel 'done'"-5/15 Trial S (I moved)-6/15/15
