Thanks V. After reading your replies before bed this morning I woke up feeling pretty good with a smile even though I only got 3 hours of sleep. I haven't had this feeling in a long while and I am going to build on it.

One foot in front of the other
One step at a time.
I can't change him or worry about "them". I can only do what is right for me and my children.
One way or another I will be victorious.

That is what I tell myself constantly. That's my way of starting the change.


Me 44
H 46
3 DD 22, 18, 15
1 DS 2.5
M 10/1992
BD1 2/2014 BD 2 7/19/2014
Moved in with OW 7/20/2014

My fight song "roar"