LBS trying to get it right

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Thank you for getting back to me the wearing of the ring is not so she notices it was more that I did not want to give her the impression that I felt the M was over well i realise that this M is over and she is not going to be coming back to it any time soon. I am still hoping that over time she will see and like my perminant changes enough that she may want to be with me in the future any way have decided to take off Ring

So I have a quesrion or 2 on GAL

As you may know we are living in the same house when it comes to going out and doing things obviously I have to think of my four children and being there for them....this was one of the things my wife said was the cause of her deciding to S was me not spending enough time with them so I have changed my working hours so I am arround at breakfast time so that I am always there

How many days should I look to GAL each week do I suggest 3 days each or just see how it lays.. currently we have suggested she does a Saturday I do a Sunday evening

The other was me.not spending enough time with her making Her feel loved and cherished so I know I cannot do anything about W

Tomorrow I will be seeing if there is a jujitsu club locally amd I am going to speak to my tennis club about starting tennis again

Thanks for all your help

Gary