V,

No worries on hijacking. I really needed it this morning.

When H and I were going our different ways this morning he made the statement that we were fine. Just 3 weeks ago he was telling me he was done and I could go away.

He did say that he has buried himself back in work so he is not thinking about "coming home" all the time. Every so often I catch glimpses of a different man, Not the one from before, but not the one he turned into. Does that make sense?

I think more and more that this is a MLC but I have decided not to try and figure out where in the crisis he is. Its too complicated and honestly not worth it anymore. It just makes me feel worse if I get it wrong. Truth will when out in the end.

I have to say I have to learn patience. GAL is helping alot with that.


Me 44
H 46
3 DD 22, 18, 15
1 DS 2.5
M 10/1992
BD1 2/2014 BD 2 7/19/2014
Moved in with OW 7/20/2014

My fight song "roar"