Job, I guess. We have had it all done prior to going to her. We didid it all online and he took it to her when he got mad a year ago when I didn't want to finish. from day one it has been nothing that he asked for. Yes I guess she can see he will do anything or say anything to get a divorce and she just keeps playing the game. yes I can tell he only ever brings up the divorce when he is pushed or mad at me. Why is that I wonder they really don't want a divorce? He seemed so adamant about it and being with ow. even when we go weeks with getting along there is no inkling that he ever wants to be together again. last time this happened I could always tell the door was partly open. He would say to me I'm not ready for this or I'm not ready for that. Even though he said he didn't want to get back together ever. I'm just curious. and its funny how he always says he wants to get along and be friends. Although his friends means just having a conversation about the kids. not much else. He will talk about himself, like his job or whatever, if I ask but never about me. actually that's not true. when getting along he will ask the kids if I have a boyfriend. I guess in his mind if I have a boyfriend I am happier and get along with him? I don't know. The funny thing is the kids always tell him yes I have a boyfriend lol
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.