Another question:

Since I learned about the A, I have been taking better care of myself, bike riding, and I've lost over 20lbs. As a result of the weight loss, I have been able to wear my wedding ring again. So I've been wearing that and also a heart locket the my H gave me a couple of years ago. He definitely noticed that I was wearing both.

Now I'm thinking maybe I should take off my ring and locket to show him that I'm rethinking things. Would that be a good or bad move? I don't know. Should I keep my ring on or not?