NAP, Yes, that's generally the way MLC works. When they aren't happy and are questioned about something they did or are doing, they push for the divorce. When they are left alone to do whatever and not be questioned, then the word "divorce" is not mentioned.
If he's paying the lawyer, then she should be doing what he's requested...getting a divorce. Yes, she's doing her job by advising him of what he can do or get, but if he opts not to pursue those things, then she should be doing what he's asked her to do. Yes, she's a sleazy one who knows a MLCer when she sees one and that means "money" to her.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
