See each R you have as a separate distinquished R. Each of your children has their own lives and thoughts, they may seem to be of one mind and opinion but that isn't possible.
And the thought that by choosing to stand you are selecting WW does not stand scrutiny. It's an illogical fallacy. By choosing one thing you are not rejecting another. This isn't a multiple choice issue.
The R that each of them has with WW is unique too. WW has much work to do if she ever emerges from her fog, but we make decisions on today not tomorrow's possibilities.
If you want to stand do so, you may hold this as private to yourself. The reason is as MWD mentions be careful who you disclose an A to in a family, it could causes difficulties.
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Last edited by Vanilla; 07/26/1504:57 PM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW