No. I asked you that question to get you to understand that the steps that you are taking through this process are EXACTLY the same steps you would take if you were to move on to a new healthy relationship.
OK, so I am being a bit thick here, the question asked was about a variation of a metric that is often quoted on this BB, in other words do you treat everything close family and friends say with the same mindset as those for your WS?
Regarding the specific question about the metric - if your W doesn't know how she's feeling. How can anyone else?
Regarding my point, I'm asking you whether it being "over" makes a difference. How does it being "over" change your path?
