There's more on going dark haunted - it's the 1st of Cadet's links (for good reason). Just do what Caliguy advised until you get to the information - no contact as far a possible.
Know your mind is full & you have much homework to read. That will keep you very busy! Take care, ok? p.
pbetra ---- M: 15 yrs (in 2014) BD: 6/03/2014 Infidelity ('known' from July 2014) Denied PA Feb 2015 2 leave Mar 2015 (left early Summer). Some contact. Back briefly 2017 (after family death) Separated 2017