There's more on going dark haunted - it's the 1st of Cadet's links (for good reason).
Just do what Caliguy advised until you get to the information - no contact as far a possible.

Know your mind is full & you have much homework to read. That will keep you very busy! wink
Take care, ok? p.


pbetra
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M: 15 yrs (in 2014)
BD: 6/03/2014
Infidelity ('known' from July 2014)
Denied PA Feb 2015
2 leave Mar 2015 (left early Summer). Some contact.
Back briefly 2017 (after family death)
Separated 2017