I'm wondering if that's the case with my W too, Heavy. She wanted the marriage and the family - many times said she was glad to have finally settled down after all those years living abroad alone, joked that she didn't have to have kids herself because I already had them for her. But now, she's so completely distancing herself from any kind of family life. I don't know if this is a temporary condition on account of the affair, or if this really is the new her. Time will tell.

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Me: 46 Her: 41
M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18
3/26 W and I meet OW
BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring
W goes to stay with OW 6/26
NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16
I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19