Recovery from cancer and separation

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Thank you pimouse. Very kind of you to say in light of the challenges that you face. We are fortunate to have others to lean on through this site and my family has really been there for me. I hope that you are as lucky to be able to reach out to family members and friends. When I went through this twenty years ago I was completely alone. I was left with a three year old and a one year old and only one night a week to rest. Instead of GAL I would catch up on sleep. Several years after our split my first ex gained a little stability and began keeping the children a couple of more days a week and it was during that time that I met my wife. I thought that I had met the girl of my dreams. It was perfect until that one night and it was a glaring red flag, but I believed that it was just jitters about the wedding. To sit here all these years later I just feel so stupid about having gone forward with it. I do however have a son who is amazing being a musician and incredibly bright. For that it is worth all of the pain that I have gone through. I hope we can continue to lift each other will remain in contact.