I feel your pain TLee, as will many.

Here's some tough love though, get yourself back on the DB line. Re read the book(s), read the success stories, the inspirational forum threads In the DB Archives

GAL, stop making it about her and decide what you want to do with your life and focus on you

Become that great guy that you know is inside you and you will feel so much better.

If the R with your W recovers, great!

If it doesn't that's great too as you will be a far better person regardless and so you'll find someone who truly values you and that R will go on forever.

This is tough stuff I know, but sitting around not taking positive action will only make you feel worse, no matter how many say they "feel your pain".


- Nobody has ever learnt anything important from happiness and success; problems make us grow
- Consult your plan, not your feelings
- If you haven't set goals, how can you expect to achieve anything?