HaWho - wow you show such patience and strength when H talks such nonsense. You are doing so well. He sounds so lost, but he must find his own path thru this.
I'm glad you had a nice birthday!
Stay strong.
H: 48 Me: 47 Married: 19 yrs T: 20 yrs 2 teen-Ds and S H-MLC (started 2012) and H-Unemployed (11/2014) D-Bomb: 2/2015 H left country but hasn't moved out: 7/2015 I filed: 7/2015