So sorry, Fogg, that your W is not wanting to work on things & in an active affair. frown such a difficult place to be in.

I appreciate you sharing your thoughts. I definitely struggle some w/ the GAL & think I need to do it carefully.


On other news, H is still mad at me for my questioning on friday. So it feels very much like where we were before he said he wanted to fix things with the exception of him wearing his ring & I believe his devices are still unlocked. I guess it will take time to show him I am going to stop asking accusatory questions. I really hate that I couldn't keep my mouth shut.

I was thinking of saying that I have been successful at not asking questions for a few things that made me nervous but I figured saying this would just seem like a desperate attempt to get him moving back towards me.

T: 14 M: 12
D: 9 S: 6
BD: 2/18/15 (H affair)
Working on marriage: 3/12/15-6/11/15
Broken Trust (my error): 6/11/15
H ring off: 7/6/15; Comm w/ OW confirmed 7/13/15
H wants to work on fixing things: 7/21/15