How about opening a new account and setting up a new budget for yourself?
My thoughts exactly. Already set up in Mint, just need to open an account.
Originally Posted By: Vanilla
Eclipse
Some extreme self care is called for, eating well, no booze, sleep and if necessary ADs. Putting it back together is going to be a choice you can make, and only you can do that.
And kindness for yourself too. You have a D in your life a precious child to think of.
I want to both boot your ass and give you a hug too. It's you I care about and your D.
V
Thank you. Unfortunately, I don't know what "AD" is. I am trying something very new for myself by pursuing a silly childhood fantasy--more to come as it develops.
BTW, I realize that I've been sparse with my posts, and a lot happens in between them...especially with the W. There's been a significant uptick in our communication (initiated by her). She's taken a short stroll with me and D the other day. Also, she's mentioned that she will be eligible for health insurance from her employer soon, and that she is considering bringing me on board for that in order for all of us to save money (it's dirt cheap thanks to union). Oh, and I hear rumors that she is reconsidering her position on the divorce.
Me:31 W:31 D:6 T: 9/2001 M: 1/2009 W unhappy: 6/14 W moves to parents: 10/14 W wants D (angry): 12/14 W okay w/ S: 2/15 W wants D (calm): 2/15 W gets new job/place: 3/15 W admits PA, suggests MC: 8/15
