help, just read up on your threads. Glad V's questions to me in my thread are helping you also. Its rough to look deep inside to answer certain questions about ourselves but I think its very worth it to discover who we really are, and who we are meant to be.

You were able to tell W about how hurt you were, with coaches advice. You are also building that friendship with her even when shes in the A. My path so far has been a bit different with how angry she was in the beginning. I had to set boundaries to gain respect back but at this point I think were going in a similiar direction. Friendly encounters and at some point in the very near future I will likely be telling W( from a place of strength) that her actions since BD have hurt me. Coach mentioned something very similiar toward the end of our first session but It may be more about what shes doing to herself and not to me.

Anyway, just wanted to say you're not alone. This is a very difficult experience but one in which has allowed many of us to change in ways we never would have otherwise. No matter what happens the work you put in now will benefit your life int he future.


Last edited by Fogg; 07/26/15 01:01 AM.
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