Recovery from cancer and separation

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First pimouse I would like to thank you for your prayers. One thing I learned from my bout with cancer is that the people who really are sincere offer prayers for you. My wife has not filed for divorce. She has however moved out and has recently purchased a house. She has become a person whom I no longer recognize. When I met her she was a generous, loving and non-judgemental person. Now she doesn't like anyone who is not wealthy or very attractive or well known. She told me that she wanted a man who was very successful and wealthy. This in spite of our having assets of several million dollars. It is proof that money does not buy happiness. When we negotiated our custody arrangement she was weak and whinny but when I mentioned splitting our assets she became very venomous. I intend to file as soon as my insurance kicks in at my new job. I have read here that many people file for divorce but then reconcile. Who knows at this point. I found it pretty easy to finally detach when she left me while I was still very sick. Now I am trying to hold down a job and take care of my son and to get healthy. I do have the help of a therapist who is very good and has helped me to see things clearly. It is expensive and I know that I am fortunate to have the money to spend on it. God bless you and I pray that you find peace and the wisdom to move forward!