I did tell him that I thought his time away would be good for both of us to figure out what we want. I have been feeling stronger without him here. I can see a future without him not that that is what I want obviously.
My kids do not know what's going on with us either. My D, who lives away from home, recently started asking when is Dad coming home. He couldn't give her an answer and neither could I. Then she just came out with it and asked what's going on.
I told my H and he decided he doesn't want to tell the kids over the phone so he's coming home for a couple of weeks. How should I handle his being home? How much should we tell the kids? I don't know if he'll reveal the OW. I doubt it.
