Another thought I wanted to mention - for me it was helpful to not participate in the drama anymore. Drama kept everything going, kept emotions high, just was not good you know? I felt like I was being used a a bit player in their play and definitely showed I was not detached.
When I stopped doing that I began to feel stronger and more in control. I am not a bit player is their sordid play. I don't play their game, I stopped. For me it was a good decision and I only wish I could have done it sooner.
Anyway, just throught of that and wanted to put it out there.
Best - Heavy
This. So incredibly much this. I've found that all there is to do is just back away and stop being the unifying force binding them together. Let them live their lives.
