V, hah! That is one scary grandma image. So friendly hugs are OK, as long as she initiates. Got it. Funny how it's settled down from a few weeks ago, where we were doing full bear hugs and even quick kiss on the lips. I put a stop to that after I realized it was full-on cake eating. Since the blowout on money, she hasn't really tried it either, although I did give her a big full hug the other day, when she was in tears and on the verge of leaving OM. She just looked so pitiful and scared I couldn't help myself. Lesson learned though - I won't be doing that again.
Me 47 W 42 T 24 yrs M 18 yrs W living with OM BD1: 3/7/2015 (A with OM#1) BD2: 4/11/2015 (A with OM#2, W moves out) WW filed for D, papers received 9/18/2015. Meeting to determine child custody 9/29/2015.