I found this site about 2 months ago and I am afraid that I ruined it before I found this site. I did all the things that are wrong, I cried begged, pleaded. I also tracked her phone and followed her and busted her. I told our daughters about her EA and now our oldest (really my step daughter) will not talk to her. They have exchanged a few texts but they have not been good. She blames me for turning her daughter against her even though our daughter has told her I have my own mine and what you are doing is wrong. I hope I can recover.
Read people's situations Mavrik. We ALL did everything wrong before we found this site. We all did what was natural. It's not natural to find out your W is having an affair and just say, "ok, I'll just focus on me and how awesome I am."
I wrote letters, shot a freakin video, sent texts, emails, you name it. YOU NAME IT. We all did. That's the past, let it go and focus on the now.
How can you stop the divorce if she wants to be with someone else? You can't. So don't focus on that. All you can do is make yourself into the man she wants to be with and then see what happens. One way is a guaranteed ending that you don't want. The other is a small chance, but one that leaves you in a much better place either way.
M 39 W 36 T5 M3 BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day Served 9/15 D finalized 6/17
