Another thought I wanted to mention - for me it was helpful to not participate in the drama anymore. Drama kept everything going, kept emotions high, just was not good you know? I felt like I was being used a a bit player in their play and definitely showed I was not detached.
When I stopped doing that I began to feel stronger and more in control. I am not a bit player is their sordid play. I don't play their game, I stopped. For me it was a good decision and I only wish I could have done it sooner.
Anyway, just throught of that and wanted to put it out there.
