I do realise I cannot fix her only she can do that

I have been looking for local clubs today trying to find ways to GAL

Home and the kids takes up a sizeable amount of my life right now but I am looking to get out a couple of evenings a week

The stupid thing is that we both get on very well we do things in the house for each other it is almost like our R is there except for the intamacy

She is going out more with her friends and is not putting me first .....this is not something that she did when we were M as I was jealous and I guess she wanted to please me by not going out clubbing

I am just going to keep trying to distance myself but living together does make this rather difficult

In some ways I would like for her to experience living without me so she can really see if this is what she wants.



Thanks

Gary


Me:48 W 41
M:18 T:26
2 D 18 & 4
2 S 17 & 13
Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation
D filed 06/17
Separate houses 10/17
D Final 29/12//17.