Oh, Tweets, I so needed to read your perspective and experience. I think at this point, what you suggest is really the best answer. I just pushing H away by what I have been doing. He is convinced that I cannot change & I know I am responsible for that. I will take your suggestions to heart & really work on me.
T: 14 M: 12 D: 9 S: 6 BD: 2/18/15 (H affair) Working on marriage: 3/12/15-6/11/15 Broken Trust (my error): 6/11/15 H ring off: 7/6/15; Comm w/ OW confirmed 7/13/15 H wants to work on fixing things: 7/21/15
I will take your suggestions to heart & really work on me.