Diff, I agree with what Zues said. But also, I ask myself whether it is helping you move forward reading all of this stuff? How is closely monitoring communications between them helping you? I don't think it is, and I would love to see you let go of looking at what they write to each other and move forward yourself. I think that would be a healthier approach and may help you better detach.
Yes, I guess we can all sit on the sidelines and comment about what they say to each other. And perhaps that may help you feel better, but I agree with Zues - if that keeps you stick as the 'good guy' and they the 'bad' - it isn't helping you grow IMHO.
I would also question the wisdom of posting exactly what has been written, given recent developments with Matt and his W. My advice would be to always paraphrase. I truly don't mean to post anything hurtful and I hop this doesn't come across in that way. But I hope you will decide to do the healthiest thing for you in these difficult circumstances.
Take care Diff :-)
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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
