If not, sit on it. Start reading some of the threads of folks that have been here for a while. If you don't want one, don't get one. Start DB'ing. It's a hell of a process, but you're going to go through hell anyway. The only difference is the shape you're going to come out in.
Sorry to hear you're struggling. This place is where the miserable come to commiserate. However, we're all in it together and we're all here for the same reason - to save our marriages.
From your registration date you haven't even begun to DB yet, you couldn't. You're too new to the game. Breathe, get some distance, figure out what's best for you and you alone right now and get on that.
Keep posting too.
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M 39 W 36 T5 M3 BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day Served 9/15 D finalized 6/17
