Hello I am trying to get things right but seem to be getting things wrong. my sister posted some warming comments on my facebook page but my W thought they were a dig at her I told her my sister just cared about me and I have removed them as I do not want to cause upset to W
I am trying to detach from her and give her space
We are cohabiting and we get along in the house together we do things for our children and are doing less and less together day to day she is doing her things and I am doing mine .
I am a fixer kind of person and I like to fix things in R I did not like sleeping on problems and would always try to make things right if we had argued.
So a question if I detach from W will she not just think I have given up on our R
When she made the choice to S it was a very hard decision for her to make I know this now that we have split she feels happier because she does not have to worry about my needs and wants she says the children are happier although I think they are struggling with emotions more
But she knows whilst we are apart I will always be doing my best to make things right She knows that if I back track then she has the reason to walk away completely I just feel that no matter what I do she will hold this over me and will not entertain getting back together for fear of me hurting her again
Please can someone guide me What are my next steps
