Co dependency H Affair poor boundaries oh My

[Zues126]

I just don't feel like it's a top priority. If she tries to stop ML before she is detached she might end up doing it in a punishing or manipulative way...or she might try to set a boundary, then backslide because she can't enforce it, and send messages that she's a complete walk over.

I think if she detaches and gets stronger the time will come when she can set and manage boundaries that feel right to her, not trying to follow some forum advice to try to control WAH.

So 4, when you're ready to set that boundary, I think it's a reasonable one. First thing- get ready.