After telling me today there is no need to hang out with me. Yep I shouldnt have asked anyways. Just frustrating he can make all this time with OW and yet not be home with me OR his kids. I talked very calmly and simply said I do whatever you ask when you ask, I have no problem helping out but I do not feel being told you do not need to hang out with me is showing the same respect. If it is that you are busy or whatever that is one thing but for you to say we are friends but you have no need to hang out with me is not showing very much respect for me. I deserve the same respect I give you. All of this came after I told him i was working 28 hours overtime next week so I can save because he does not want me here right? he said yes I want you to move. I said that is fine maybe I will stop helping pay bills then too so I can save. He just said ok then when I asked if he planned to hang out at home at all this week he told me he was going fishing tonight, racing and then with OW for a while then to truck pulls with OW on Sunday. Because he hasnt seen her in a while. umm excuse me he skipped work thursday to go with her to fair. What is going on with him???? We ML on sunday now he spends all week with her. Is this typical behavior? How is this A lasting while we still live together and she is divorcing her husband? Shouldnt she be getting sick of this? I dont know if I should stay living here as long as I can or if I should just move. I want to stay to keep working on me and financial reasons and another part of me just wants to out last her but I am not sure that is going to happen they are going on a year alread! How long can this A last? I need some HELP figuring out what i need to do. Do I just honestly stop talking to him unless he talks to me? Why is he so set on me leaving now when in March he practically begged me to stay? Why is he all of a sudden spending more and more time with OW? HELP ME UNDERSTAND PLEASE!
