...Problem with the 50-50 stat .. thats out of all marriages right? So people who come here obviously are more towards that 50% D group already as more than likely the WAS is already checked out...
Thank you for your comments CallGuy.
Are you saying that most if not everybody has a WAS when they come here? That wasn't necessarily my impression, the crux of the point originally made was that there's a bias toward accepting the D will happen and that this doesn't echo the text of the DR book.
You are 100% right in saying that you save yourself first and that this site is an invaluable resource for many, many people.
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