Walk away wife and my journey

[ATPeace]

Please can any of you give me your thoughts on the following

Today my W came up to me to discuss a post that my sister had put onto facebook that had upset her I told her that my sister has he own views but if they were upsetting you then I would speak to her and I would remove th post if that as what she wanted me to do

I told her that her feelings were more important than my sisters (not sure if I should have said this)

She said to me it is tough for her as well and basically went on to say that 3 years ago if she had not fell preginant then she would have left me then but she gave it another go for the sake of the baby.

She said that by splitting up ....our relationship has got better because we are not arguing and the kids are happier and that she knows whilst we are split up that I cannot hurt her and if I ever do anything to hurt her or the children again then she will sell the house

So she will not get back together as I feel she can hold this over me for their happiness for ever

I said she does not need the do this as i know I will not hurt her again but she does not believe me

I give up I will just find things to do with my time ...might start i jujitsu again