Remember being a strong man, and being a person who wants to save his marriage means you need to be a strong man, choose a path that works for you, for your kids, and that gives you the best chance.
That means, sometimes you have to do what does not come natural. Work on figuring out how you can drop the rope.
Money, gas money, tire pressure are some examples on how you are enabling her, or cushioning her fall. She is a big girl, making large decisions. One thing children learn is how to deal with the consequences of their decisions. Its time she did that as well, and you let her.
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015
