Firstly, it stops you questioning it, secondly it protects you and final much of it is pure carrot and sweet corn. Ever noticed that when you are ill there is always carrot and sweet corn, even if you haven't eaten those for months?
If you analysed spew, then you may find projection, in other words what WW says is a reflection of herself. If she says U you are a liar, a thief and have green hair. The that is how she feels about herself. It's a good measure of where she is I feel. You won't learn much of what she thinks of you by listening, unless you reverse what she says. Considering her views could deflect you from your path.
As you say It can be slightly funny too. I used to have to go to the bathroom cupboard and put a towel in my mouth so I didn't laugh out too loud. That was after I knew what spew was, before that I used to say " is it true, am I really the most selfish uncaring person in the world ever, in the whole history of selfish and uncaring wives I am the worst one. Why does H think that, what can I do?" Once it was explained to me that WH was reflecting his thoughts about himself, it was ironic.
The saddest was when he told me I was the most unattractive woman in the world. I just said "I don't see myself that way WH and I don't agree with you. In fact I consider to say this is a very uncaring and unattractive thing to say to me and was said to be hurtful. I am leaving the room now". Sad because I then knew that was how WH felt about himself.
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Last edited by Vanilla; 07/24/1508:36 PM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
