Hello anyone have any advice for me ? time is coming soon for me to join my family and unsure what I should do .. trying to stay calm cool and collected I also am not sure what validating means if I should be using that when speaking to H? UGGHH why does this have to be so darn hard.. I feel like I second guess everything I say ..Help


Married 1991
D 32 GD 12
D 30 GD 3
S 29
M 58
S 57
1st bomb 2008
2nd bomb 4/2015 same person
New bomb 09/24
I fear those big words which make us so unhappy.