Originally Posted By: little1
I do have a question and yes I know I am not suppose to readanything into a what he is doing or saying.

I was reading other post and in piecing section I noticed a lot of people have said it gets worse before it gets better..

My advice ... don't go into the piecing section, you are just starting to crawl here, you have to DB first and reading your sitch you are no where near piecing ... the advice there is FAR different there and will do you no good, only confuse things more.


Originally Posted By: little1

So my question is

How did you know you were at the worst?

I will speak for myself here ... I did'nt ... you never know where rock bottom is till you start climbing out of it and look down and realize .. "wow ... that was way down there, and it $ucked" Because when you are there you think .. ok this can not get any worse .. and sometimes it just does.

Originally Posted By: little1
How did you get through it?

Day by day ... by learning and focusing on myself, really GAL, detach, 180, and PMA .. they all are connected to each other and feed off of one another.
Originally Posted By: little1
Am I possibly tat the worse part?

You will not know till you move away from it ... things may get worse, that's the reality ... or they may in fact get better. Truth of it is .. you are 'here' now ... you control you and can decide what to do with all this, the ball is truly in your court on that one.


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